Dating App Scams Targeting Over-50s in the UK
Romance scams target people dating later in life. How dating app and WhatsApp scams work in the UK, the red flags, how to check someone is real and exactly what to do if you are worried.
Staying safe
Safety & scams
How to spot romance scams, protect your privacy, meet safely and get help if something goes wrong.
Start here: Dating App Scams Targeting Over-50s in the UK8 guides
Topic: Safety & scams
How to spot romance scams, protect your privacy, meet safely and get help if something goes wrong.
First Date Safety After 50: A Complete Checklist
A complete first date safety checklist for people over 50: checks before you meet, choosing a venue, on the day, leaving early, afterwards, and the warning signs to watch for.
Military Romance Scams: How to Spot a Fake Soldier
How military romance scams work, the stories fake soldiers use, what genuine service personnel never need money for, how to check, and what to do if you have been targeted.
How to Spot a Married Man on a Dating App
Worried the man you are dating might be married? The warning signs, what “separated” really means, how to check and ask directly, and what to do if you find out.
I’ve Been Scammed on a Dating Site: What to Do Now
Victim of a romance scam? What to do now, step by step: stop payments, call 159, report it, claim reimbursement under UK rules, avoid recovery scams and get support.
Romance Scam Messages: The Scripts Scammers Use (With Examples)
Romance scammers follow scripts. The typical messages at each stage, from the first compliment to the request for money, with example wording so you can recognise them.
Should You Give Your Phone Number Before a First Date?
Should you share your phone number with someone from a dating app before you meet? When it is sensible, safer alternatives, and what to do if someone pushes for it too soon.
How to Spot a Romance Scam on WhatsApp
Many romance scams move from dating apps to WhatsApp. The warning signs to look for, the privacy settings that protect you, and what to do if you think the person you are talking to is a scammer.
More guides on the way
We publish each guide when it’s properly researched, not before. Here’s what’s on the way:
- Should you video call before meeting someone?In progress
- How to spot a fake dating profileIn progress
- Sexual photos and messages when dating onlineIn progress
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